Kids are darn cute!!!

Kids are soo cute..

Just now, on my way for my lunch, I met this kid (about 3 yrs old) with his mum. He was trying to cross a small drain with the help from his mother. When I first saw him, my first thought was, 'Why la this perempuan waiting for his son to walk'. Then I realised that, his mother was waiting for him to gain his courage to jump over the drain. When he did, he smiled brightly to his mum, like 'Hey mum, see, I can be an adult too'. His expression was soo cute.. I guess, when a kid does that, ppl will think it's cute.. imagine if it is an adult who's doing it.. itu BUANG TEBIAT.. hahaha...

Anyway, there's second incident. This one happened just now, when I was browsing for shoes. I got a personal shopper assistants in the form of 2 young girls, age around 4 to 5 yrs old. Initially, they were looking at me when I was trying the shoes there. Then I said hello and asked them which shoes that they liked. Straight away, they showed and asked me to try not only one shoes but few.. And this one lil girl, kept asking me try this one red shoes.. My ohh my.. she is soo daring to ask me to wear such bright colors.. hehehe.. if their mum didn't call them, they might continue to help to choose.. Sigghhh... kids are soo cute..

Wish I have one of my own... :(

Why do we get married?

Why?? I keep asking this question myself over and over again. Why do ppl get marry? Is it because of sex? or is it because of love? or scare to be alone? companionship? etc.. etc.. If marry because of sex, nowadays, ppl can just have sex with anyone without even having any commitment. Just now, my colleague told me, in her previous company, many guys were having affairs outside their marriage.. So, what's the point of getting married? if because of love, some of friends of my friend, are having marital problems now.. also, married because of love.. scare to be alone? .. well, why some ppl have tis kind of thought? When we die, we are going to be burried alone.. when we were born, we were born alone.. nobody accompany us, except angels.. and also our parents' love.. Ahh.. companionship.. emm.. tis is more interesting..to marry a guy/lady who can be our long term companion.. is consider a bonus.. Most couples, married to those who r not their 100% soulmate.. hence the bickering and disagreement during their marriage.. So, whoever manage to find his/her soulmate, consider they are lucky..

So.. still ppl do get marry.. why? A friend of mine told me this. It's about your intention when you want to get marry. What is your intention? If just for the above reasons, it's not solid enough. She told me to think as marriage is a way to get God's blessing. Set the right intention, the intention of marriage is to for Allah. She said, with marriage, you can get a lot of 'pahala'/ good deeds that as a single person, you will not get as much as a married couple. Take care of your hubby's need - you will get pahala.. Thinking of your partner first, will get pahala.. even making love also will get Pahala...

Emm.. maybe I shud re-think abt my 'direction' now..

That's what friends are for..

That's What Friends Are For ~ Dionne Warwick

And I never thought I'd feel this way

And as far as I'm concerned

I'm glad I got the chance to say

That I do believe I love you

And if I should ever go away

Well, then close your eyes and try to feel

The way we do today

And then if you can remember

Keep smilin', keep shinin'

Knowin' you can always count on me, for sure

That's what friends are for

For good times and bad times

I'll be on your side forever more

That's what friends are for

Well, you came and opened me

And now there's so much more I see

And so by the way I thank you

Whoa, and then for the times when we're apart

Well, then close your eyes and knowT

hese words are comin' from my heart

And then if you can remember, oh

Keep smiling, keep shining

Knowing you can always count on me, for sure

That's what friends are for

In good times, in bad times

I'll be on your side forever more

Oh, that's what friends are for

Whoa... oh... oh...

Keep smilin', keep shinin'

Knowin' you can always count on me, for sure

That's what friends are for

For good times and bad times

I'll be on your side forever more

That's what friends are for

Keep smilin', keep shinin'

Knowin' you can always count on me, oh, for sure

'Cause I tell you that's what friends are for

For good times and for bad times

I'll be on your side forever more

That's what friends are for

(That's what friends are for)
On me, for sure

That's what friends are for

Keep smilin', keep shinin'

I always love this song. The lyrics is soo meaningful and I dedicate this beautiful song to all my friends who know me. You guys are great help, without you, I am nobody.. Thanks so much for your love and friendship..

Why I want to touch the topic on 'friendship' is because, my friends are my life. Without them, my life would be like a blank piece of white paper. But when I meet a new person and later become my close friend, that the same white paper will turn into a beautiful, colorful drawing.. That, when I went back to look at the drawing, it will put a smile on my face.

In my growing years, I never short of having friends. Good friends, bad friends or any type of friends.. Just that, close friends stay.. And through them, I learn about myself.. I learn about other human being.. I learn about the world.. My parents always said, 'Buat baik dengan orang, jadikan orang tu kawan.. jangan sekali2 buat jahat or ada niat busuk.. nanti Allah marah'. and I keep that to my heart... but sometimes, there are friends who just love to torture other friend. In front, they will show their good-friend attititude.. but behind our back, they will turn into lunatic-pshyco friend.. That is sad.. coz for me, it's the same as betrayal.. When I accept a person to be my friend, I will give my loyalty and trust to them.. so when this backstabbing thingy happen, I will feel extremely bad.. Why this kind of ppl exist? Don't they feel bad when do bad things to their own friends?.. I dunno.. Only God knows the answer..

RPK says..

Tahun Meliwat Malaysia.. So farney.. ha ha ha.. He is one funny guy, never dry of sacarstic jokes.. I never bother to read his blog but my colleagues adore his writing. I only read one and I admit, he is good with words. Too bad he is not in politics, he is the backbenchers... the voice of people.. anyway, enough of politics.. I never like to write/discuss about politics anyways..

Last nite, me and my gfs when to watch Journey to the Centre of the Earth in 3D. Wow!! I've never been to a 3D movie before. The one I tried was at the amusement park in France. Anyway, after a good movie, we went for our very late dinner. And here, everyone starting to spill out the stories. One of gf's friend is undergo a family turbulance. Pity her friend. Guess, every marriage has its problem. So, marriage is a gamble but why ppl still want to get marry. Is it because of wanting to have a legalised sex? or for the sake of other ppl? or because of love? or ..

I was told by a friend.. made me change my view of marriage. Perkahwinan adalah satu cara untuk mendapatkan keredhaan dari Allah. What she meant, marriage is a way to get to Allah Almighty's blessing. With marriage, you can easily get pahala.. and also easily get dosa.. It's not about wanting to have sex or kids.. Sole purpose of marriage is for Allah. Why do u have kids? So that, you can continue ur existence in the name of Allah... and as for me, why am I still single? That... I have yet to find the asnwer..

From this moment on..

I bet some of my friends will kutuk me already.. because of my inactive blog. It isn't about no ideas to write (I have plenty of them).. just that when the virus 'M' hit me, blog or noblog, I will not bother to write. However, I was told by a very dear friend of mine, MsF that I should try to make a habit of writing down some of my tots. At least, if one day I forget, I can still remember based on my ol' notes..

Ok.. Half of 2008 has passed. So many things happened.. friends come and go.. meeting new ppl.. falling in and out of love.. break ups.. well.. main thing is, my dear 2nd brother is getting married.. In 3 weeks time, I will have a new sis in law. WOW!! Time sure flies soo fast..I am happy for him.. but at the same time, a bit sad too. Coz, everyone in my family is moving on to the next level. But myself is still stucked in "Ol Me". Nothing much has changed.. Even my last 2 brothers are bz searching their destiny. I wonder.. am I gonna be like this for the rest of my life? Sigh...

Something's got to be changed.. I need to re-strategize my life..